Compatibility
Chemistry vs Compatibility
6 min read
Chemistry is immediate and hard to argue with. Compatibility is slower and much easier to assess in advance.
Most people over-index on one or the other. Rely only on chemistry and you repeat patterns. Rely only on compatibility and you end up with a sensible relationship that never quite comes alive.
The practical approach is to screen for compatibility before the date and let chemistry answer for itself once you are in the room. That is what a thoughtful private introductions process is designed to do.
It is also worth remembering that chemistry sometimes builds. A second date is often more informative than a first one.
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