Modern Dating
How to Date Intentionally Without Overthinking It
5 min read
Dating with intention gets confused with dating with anxiety. The first is about clarity. The second is about control.
A workable structure looks like this. Decide what you actually want in a relationship. Decide what you will not compromise on. Then stop re-litigating either one after every date.
Between dates, do less analysis. Two hours with someone rarely produces enough data to justify an hour of interpretation.
Give people a fair look, be direct when it is not a fit, and keep your own life full while you are dating. That last part matters more than any dating strategy.
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